To bed not to bed?

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Even before I had Zaynah it always baffled me why people let their kids sleep in the bed with them, especially when they had enough space for them not too.  I was determined not to fall into that trap and put Zay to sleep in the cot.  Then I dramatically did my ankle in and it all changed!! While I was in hospital my mom looked after her and it was easier to be in the bed together and again it was easier for me once the plaster was off because I still found it difficult to balance to get her in and out of the cot.

12 weeks on and the cot resembles a storage box with toys and pre ironed laundry with no sign of it ever being used for sleeping again.  However I honestly feel that sharing a bed with Zaynah is one of the best things to come out of my accident.  I would have never got to experience the cuddling or the playtime before we both doze off and sometime when I wake up and she is on the other side of the bed it does make me feel a little lonely so I pull her near for a hug.

I know its going to be hard to get her into her own bed but that's a problem for future Eve the deal with (like potty training and getting rid of the dummy)!! Right now I'm just enjoying this close time we spend together.





 

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